Gold Digging in Relationships, a He or She Thing?
Almost from when i knew what gold digging was, it was associated with women. You would hear things like; 'don't mind her, she is a gold digger, she is only after him or with him for his money'. Recently though seems Men are more involved in gold digging, its almost like the richer you are as a babe the better, if your parents are rich, then they hang in there to get the best of it. Well am not saying women have stopped digging gold but its like the men are in competition with them now. I have heard a few men say, if she is not rich i can't have anything to do with her and likewise the women. Stories abound of female folks saying, he is just after me because of what i have, i even hear of females that pay guys monthly and vice versa.
Just today i heard the story of a guy i know very well who had two women fighting over him, the first felt entitled because she helped him become who he was with her money and time, the second well had money in the bank and wanted to clinch to her man. The man later went for the second, he used up half of the money in her bank with the excuse that he was going to pay back, now there is trouble in paradise cause money ain't forth coming
Before you think am making up stories , here are some pictures and stories to ponder on. Hey! i ain't saying they are gold diggers but they ain't messing with no broke..
Pic 1 : Popular artist Tiwa and Teebillz, when they had their tough time in marriage which become an online frenzy because they both aired their issues online. Tiwa stated that Teebillz was with her because of who she is and because he wants to continue to live an affluent lifestyle on her pay. However rumour has it that they are back together , i wish them well
Pic 2: the story of this bride @ebiluvly and groom @bigsholz went viral, as he went from her uber driver to her hubby. However his ex Temile, told her story online , of how he was with her for what she had, he practically fed off her and her savings and impregnated her, only to dump her and run off with another when she became broke and could no longer fend for her. Well i wish the couple HML and hope they settle all issues.
Pic 3: Popular OAP Toke Makinwa and her Ex. Story has it that she was stuck on him because he was her dream guy with money and all. However their marriage hit the rocks. She wrote a tell it all book titled 'On Becoming'. They have both moved on doing great things for themselves
