Be grateful you are married, do not complain about his inability to provide - Nigerian Man
According to a Nigerian Man (Onos...) , women ought to be thankful they are married even if their spouse cannot provide for them. He says as a woman it is a privilege to be with a man as a wife, as men are scarce. Also according to him, even women that earn more than than their men and provide for their homes, beg their husbands to remain with them despite the odds.
Okay, I think women brought this kind of talk upon themsleves. They tend to over attach importance to being a Mrs. even if it is a Mrs. Somebody. The society helped influence this too as they honor and respect women who are married than those who are not. I read an article today written by a Nigeria lady who clearly stated that liberalism and feminism are killing the women of today. She implied that the inability of a woman to marry is caused by the woman because she wants to be a liberalist or be a feminist and not under any man. Also according to her women that are not married are often sad, unhappy and lonely and end up being sadist. I could say it is notions like this that drives women into desperation to marry against all odds.
I think it is ideal for men and women to share responsibilities in their homes from finances to domestic work. Please marry well, do not marry someone that thinks the sun and moon rises with him or one you are obligated to slave for. You are a woman, you have the right to choose, you have the right to live and pursue your dreams, refuse to be any man's punching bag or slave.